Each and every one of our lives are filled with its fair share of uncertainty. Tomorrow is filled with mystery and uncertainty because it is the unknown. No one person can actually tell you what the future hold because just like you and me, they are only human and have the right to their opinion.
Since we all face this same unknown on a daily basis, our focus should be on what is not a mystery. There are two things in this life that we can be certain of, death and taxes. Everything else can be considered plans, hopes, dreams, accomplishments, and failures because this is what life is comprised of. And the same goes for every man, woman, boy and girl.
Since we all have the same amount of time and similar opportunities as everyone else, isn’t it absolutely possible we were meant to at least try to face life before enlisting the constant aid of someone else because we are too afraid to deal with it?
Most of the time it’s hard, for most people, to recognize one simple fact, it is not our place to deal with other people’s life uncertainties because it takes all of our attention to maintain concentration on our own.
So, with this in mind, exactly why do we react to things which are of no concern of ours? Is it possible maybe we think we know how to handle other’s problems better than they do? Even if solving that person’s issue doesn’t add to your life or edify your mind. Then it adds insult to injury when the circumstances are of their own making, what makes us think we must intervene?
Isn’t your own life enough of a mystery? Each day brings 24 hours, 1440 minutes, 86,400 seconds to each of us. When you stop and look at the actual time you dedicate to unraveling the uncertainties of other people’s lives, working 8 hours, taking care of the family (even if it’s only you) eating, and sleeping, when do you have time to deal with your own uncertainties and life mysteries?
In less than a month, we will be welcoming in a new year. It is at this time many people make resolutions for the upcoming year they have no intentions of keeping. Maybe it just sounded good at the time or maybe it was the champagne doing the thinking when they were dreamed up. Whatever the situation, this upcoming year can produce new fruit for your life if you are willing to change not only the way you view your life, but also discovering how to focus more on your life.
Your life is more about you helping others and not enabling them. However, it should not be completely consumed leaving little to no time to focus on yourself.
Join me as I delve into how to have a 2023 like you’ve never imagined. We will explore exactly what it is going to take to have the most memorable year of your life.
There is no hyperbole, nothing to buy, or time-consuming mind exercises involved. The only thing required to have the best year ever is an open mind and determination…that’s all.